Therapy to help you shift the patterns that keep getting in your own way — and choose how you actually want to live.
For the private habits: shame, secrecy, compulsive behavior, that don't match the life you've otherwise worked hard to build.
Hi, I’m Gabriel Senn.
I understand therapy from both sides of the chair. My own years in psychotherapy shaped the therapist I try to be: direct, deeply curious, and willing to stay with what's difficult. Not the "how does that make you feel" kind of therapy, but the kind that actually moves you closer to who you're trying to become.
I was also raised around it. Several of the most gifted therapists I know are family, and watching that work up close, long before I trained for it myself, is part of why I don't flinch easily. The topics most people steer around, I tend to lean into.
I work with men, women, and couples living in the gap between how things look from the outside and the private, harder-to-say-out-loud parts of themselves and their relationships they haven't found a way to integrate yet.
I specialize in:
Shame and secrecy
Face what you've been hiding without becoming defined by it.
Compulsive behaviors
Pornography, sex, gambling, drinking, and other patterns that have become difficult to control.
Anger, disconnection, & loneliness
Irritability, resentment, withdrawal, and the distance they create.
Infidelity & betrayal
Understand what happened, take responsibility, and determine what comes next.
Couples therapy
Work through conflict, betrayal, and disconnection–and start rebuilding trust. Gottman Level 2 Trained.
Confidentiality & Discretion
For those with a public profile or reputation to protect — someone who understands that world and guards your privacy accordingly.
Reaching out is often the hardest part. Choose whichever feels right.
Session details: $200 per 50-minute virtual session. Private pay, with a superbill provided for out-of-network reimbursement.
Ready to find a time? Clicking the Schedule Directly button below takes you to our secure scheduling portal, where you'll pick a day for a free 15-minute consultation — a first conversation to share what's going on and see if we're the right fit, before booking your first full session.
How to Begin
Prefer to reach out by email first? Submit a quick inquiry by clicking the button below and we'll set up that same free 15-minute call — you'll hear back within one business day.
Frequently Asked Questions
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If it's taking up mental space, costing you sleep, or making you feel like you're managing two different lives, that's enough of a reason. You don't need a crisis to justify getting support.
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Very. Most people I work with are saying some version of this out loud for the first time in our first few sessions. That's not a red flag — it's usually the whole reason therapy works.
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Yes. I work regularly with compulsive sexual behavior, pornography use, and the shame and secrecy that tend to build up around it — without pathologizing you for having it.
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Same lens applies. The specific behavior matters less to me than what it's doing for you and what it's costing you — that's where the actual work happens.
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Discretion is built into how I work, not an afterthought. I'm comfortable with clients who have real visibility or status, and I don't get rattled by it.
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Yes. I've completed Level 1 and Level 2 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, and increasingly work with couples navigating infidelity, disconnection, or the aftermath of a partner's compulsive behavior coming to light.
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Staying up too late - often- playing video games ? Do you work so late your partner routinely mentions it ? You’re in the right place.
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I help men who want more connection - understanding what keeps pulling them toward isolation and build a life with more room for relationships, confidence, and intimacy.