Helping men navigate secret shame, hidden anger, and compulsive behaviors including pornography, gambling, and extramarital affairs.
Primary Areas of Clinical Focus
Shame & Guilt: Softening the heavy isolation that comes with keeping secrets, and helping you quiet the harsh internal voice telling you that you are fundamentally broken.
Compulsive Behaviors: Addressing repetitive loops—such as pornography overuse, compulsive sexual habits, and risky gambling—that feel impossible to break through willpower alone.
Hidden Anger & Self-Management: Understanding the low-grade resentment, sudden irritability, or explosive flashes that strain your most important relationships and leave you filled with remorse.
Extramarital Affairs & Infidelity: Looking honestly at the choices, quiet concessions, and unseen emotional drift that led up to a breach of trust. Infidelity rarely happens out of nowhere; understanding the thoughts and feelings leading up to that choice helps reclaim your humanity and opens a path toward genuine growth and accountability.
High-Functioning on the Outside. Carrying Secret Isolation Within.
You show up, handle the pressure, and excel in your career. To the outside world, your life looks enviable because you only show them the polished parts. But that public success comes with a hidden cost—parts of yourself kept in secret isolation and shame.
When the door closes, a different part of you emerges and makes choices you later regret—whether through pornography, gambling, infidelity, or hidden anger. You aren't lacking willpower or intelligence, and this part of you isn't an enemy to be destroyed. It is simply trying to meet a need in the only way it knows how, while the voice inside your head is asking you to stop.
In our work together, we don't condemn or sever that part of you. We learn what it is truly seeking, nourish what has been neglected, and integrate it into a whole, self-directed identity—giving you the freedom to live fully aligned.
Hi, I’m Gabriel Senn
I grew up in a family of therapists—so learning how to be deeply curious about people and how they navigate the world started at a very early age. Right before I started my clinical practice, I spent four years as a medical social worker in a dialysis clinic.
In dialysis, there are no masks. Day in and day out, I sat alongside people enduring the physical and psychological toll of life-sustaining treatment. What struck me most wasn't just their endurance, but their agency. The relationship between the medical team and the patient wasn't top-down or dictatorial—it was a true collaborative partnership. Patients learned how to advocate for themselves, show up for their care, and maintain a quiet, unshakeable dignity. It proved to me that when people are treated as active partners in their own well-being, their capacity for resilience is immense.
That collaborative foundation directly shapes how I practice psychotherapy today.
When high-functioning men come to my office carrying secret shame, hidden anger, or compulsive behaviors, they aren't lacking capability. They are often incredibly competent men who already know how to show up for their lives, but are exhausted from carrying a hidden internal conflict. I don't sit across from you as a lecturer or an authority telling you how to live. We work as partners—helping you channel that same innate capacity toward your mental health, step out of self-sabotage, quiet the brutal internal critic, and step into genuine self-respect.
My approach is direct, relational, and grounded. I offer a discreet, empowering space built for the point where white-knuckling and willpower stop working. You’ll leave our sessions with a clearer understanding of your internal patterns and real, actionable clarity to live fully aligned.
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